Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating
Janice threw herself down into my office chair with a sigh. One look at her told me how well her last week of dating had gone. “So!” I said. “Anyone...
Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries
Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of...
How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again
You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the...
Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?
You are so angry at him, you can’t think straight. You don’t even want him around. If he says one more thing, you might just blow your top. So you take a...
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Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?
Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a serious problem if they think a photo like that is going to turn a woman on.” “So there’s not a single guy who’s...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man
Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her comfort zone and follow his lead. She told me she’d never been with anyone so masculine. She was enjoying the...
When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…
When Jayla walked into my office, she didn’t smile or shake my hand. She shuffled over to the chair, sat down hard, and stared at me. She told me flat-out that she didn’t think I was going to be able to help her. She thought this was going to be a complete waste of...
Should you stick with a difficult relationship?
Should you stick with a difficult relationship? It’s a question that divides a lot of people. (Ask it on a first date, and you’ll learn a lot about him.) Some believe relationships should be easy. If you’re struggling, it’s because there’s something wrong. You’re not...
Should You Be Your True Self with Men?
How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not worth it....
The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You
You’re chatting with a gorgeous guy on Tinder. Not only is he super-hot, but he’s let you know in no uncertain terms how attractive he finds you. Without intending it, your conversation has gotten a bit dirty. Sexual innuendos, double entendres, and suggestions that...
Stop Underestimating Yourself
Sheryl Sandberg was a fraud. She was chief operating officer at Facebook. Forbes had named her the 5th most powerful woman in the world—even above former First Lady Michelle Obama. Yet she was plagued by the feeling that it had all been a big mistake. She knew she...
You Can Feel More Confident
You’re on a first date with someone you met online. You’re sitting across from him, talking and laughing, but part of you is on edge. You can’t relax. You haven’t been able to relax since you got into the car to drive here. You normally don’t worry what anyone thinks...
It’s All His Fault
When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him. ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right...
The Most Powerful Way to Hook a Man (And He’s Probably Using It on You!)
There’s this guy. He’s so exciting to be with. You always have the best time together. Even though you’re normally able to relax and be yourself around men, something about this guy makes you want to impress him. And because you get the feeling he isn’t impressed by...
Attraction that Leads to Trouble…
Think of the last guy you were attracted to. Someone you REALLY liked. Did being with this guy make you feel: Like you’d be happy forever if only he’d commit to you? But first you’ve got to show him how great you are and how great his life would be with you?Like you’d...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
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