Three Single Women Walk Into A Bar…

Three single friends go out for a girls night on the town. One of the women is highly attractive. Another is super friendly. The last flirts with everyone. Which friend is most likely to spark a connection with a guy on their evening out? Well, Isn’t It Obvious? The...

Believing in Soulmates Can Lead You to Love

In some circles, it’s not fashionable to believe in soulmates. Who would believe there’s just one person out there for you—in this day and age? There’s no such thing as soulmates, the cynics say. Just the right person for right now. But people have believed in...

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the future. Even their parents assumed they’d get married. But as graduation neared, her boyfriend began pulling away....

How to Be Remarkable

How brave are you? Do you have what it takes to try one of the riskiest (and, ironically, most successful) dating strategies out there? All it takes is being remarkable. Take a Risk or Play It Safe The safest dating advice is to find out what the average man finds...

A More Attractive Face from Mindfulness?

A friend of mine took up yoga in her 40s. She wanted to improve her flexibility. She was starting to feel stiff in the mornings. But she stuck with it after she discovered how it made her feel on a psychological level. She said it was like “spending quality time with...

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a desert. They feel like they’re doing the work. They’ve put up online dating profiles. They invest good money in...