I know, dumb question.
It’s hard not to. In fact, it’s perfectly natural.
But here’s the problem. As a relationship consultant, I often see the negative impact it has on a woman’s social confidence.
And that’s because we tend to compare ourselves with the few people who seem to have it all together. She’s got a killer job, a beautiful face, perfect hair, money for all the right accessories, and the guys she dates . . .
She makes it look easy. And in the process, she makes you feel less confident.
She may be a friend. She could be an enemy. She might even be a frenemy. Whatever category she falls into, you seethe with jealousy. Why does she get all of that while you feel like you have to work really hard for a fraction of the success?
Here’s something to consider. Maybe she isn’t as happy and confident as she seems.
Her dating success is maddening. Why does it seem so effortless for her when you’re working your tail off?!
How can you be expected to tolerate her easy success? In a word, gracefully. And here’s how you pull that off.