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Why It’s Not Selfish to Say No to Your Guy

Why It’s Not Selfish to Say No to Your Guy

I’m going to ask you a really tough question. Here it is. Your guy has asked you to do something you REALLY don’t want to do. Do you: Say yes … but end up feeling resentful? Say no … but end up feeling guilty? It’s impossible, right? Either way, you end up feeling...

What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes

What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes

Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...

When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…

When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…

When Jayla walked into my office, she didn’t smile or shake my hand. She shuffled over to the chair, sat down hard, and stared at me. She told me flat-out that she didn’t think I was going to be able to help her. She thought this was going to be a complete waste of...

It’s All His Fault

It’s All His Fault

When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him.  ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right now....

How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

It’s tough when women come into my office suffering from a recently-ended relationship. They want to get over it, they want to move on and meet someone new, but the pain of loss keeps tripping them up. I admire these women greatly. They’ve gone through a terrible...

How to Soothe Rejection with Self-Compassion

How to Soothe Rejection with Self-Compassion

If I could make a guess about you, I’d bet that you’re harder on yourself than anyone else. Am I right? You’re hard on yourself because being a good person matters to you. You want to be good at what you do. You want to be good to the people you love. You don’t want...

Bounce Back with Better Self-talk

Bounce Back with Better Self-talk

Think of your last REALLY BAD dating experience. The guy who arrived at your dinner date … only to confess he’d already eaten. The guy who vanished into thin air while you were freshening up in the bathroom. The guy who failed to mention he was married. The guy who...

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

“He has to win at everything!” Damona was exasperated. “We can’t even go for a game of mini golf without his ‘gotta-win’ hat going on. It’s not even fun anymore. We go for a hike, he’s gotta pass everyone else on the trail. I keep telling him it’s not a race to the...

Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?

Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?

You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...

The Secret Message of Loneliness

The Secret Message of Loneliness

Certain times of year are lonelier than others. Holidays. Valentine’s Day. Vacation time with no one to spend it with. Along with the loneliness comes a hot burst of shame. Shame that you’re even feeling this way. You shouldn’t be lonely. You’ve got your life and your...

How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future

How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future

Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...

Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)

Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)

When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy