Overcome Every Heartache
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Stop Waiting on Him to Change
So many of the women who come to me know exactly what needs to change in their love situation… HIM. They want him to do something or feel something. He...
Why Guys Break Up Instead of Working on the Relationship
This is a story you might have heard before. A man meets a woman… And he falls hard. He’s never met anyone like her before. They have so much fun together....
3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex
“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has...
Should I Go No Contact?
I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact...
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“I’m So Mad at Him!”
It’s not fair. What he’s doing to you isn’t right. You’ve been nothing but wonderful to him. You’ve been there for him. You’ve put aside your own needs. You’ve been patient. And he doesn’t even try to change. Well, sometimes he tries. When he does, it’s amazing. It’s...
Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)
Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved her boyfriend Brad. She really did. She just wanted them to be happy. And they would be happy… If Brad would...
It’s All His Fault
When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him. 😊 If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right...
What It Means When He Says He Doesn’t Love You
It’s one of the worst things anyone can say: “I don’t love you anymore.” Those 5 words destroy you. The world you thought you lived in, the future you thought you had with this person, the connection you thought you shared… All gone. How could he say such a thing?...
Why Is He Acting That Way??? (Why Your Answer Matters More Than You Think)
When Jaylene let herself in after a long day at work, she was surprised to see her boyfriend eating dinner without her. “Couldn’t you wait for me?” she asked, putting down her purse and coming up behind him. She wrapped her arms around his shoulders and gave him a...
Scared He’s Going to Leave You? 3 Questions That Can Help
Caitlyn thought of herself as gentle and loving. She made others feel good. She tried to keep the peace. But her boyfriend Hudson was driving her crazy. It started a few months after they moved in together. Until then, she thought she and Hudson saw eye-to-eye on...
My Husband Keeps Letting Me Down
Skye knew she’d found the One… Until they moved in together. This awesome boyfriend who made her laugh and fixed her scrambled eggs and took her mud car racing morphed into someone she didn’t recognize once they were married. He was terrible at making her feel better...
Dating a Guy Your Friends Don’t Like
Question 1. Would you date someone your parents didn’t approve of? Question 2. Would you date someone your friends didn’t approve of? The research is in. The days of listening to parents are over. You’re much more likely to be swayed by your friends’ opinion....
Scientifically-Proven Way to Bounce Back (Better Than Ever!) from Heartbreak
You can’t eat. You can’t smile without forcing it. You can’t stop thinking about him. You can’t stop thinking about what happened. You feel terrible, you look terrible, and all you want is for him to be suffering as much as you are. In the midst of your misery, you...
Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?
You are so angry at him, you can’t think straight. You don’t even want him around. If he says one more thing, you might just blow your top. So you take a breather and consider what you’re going to do next. Are you going to give him what he so richly deserves? Are you...
Should you stick with a difficult relationship?
Should you stick with a difficult relationship? It’s a question that divides a lot of people. (Ask it on a first date, and you’ll learn a lot about him.) Some believe relationships should be easy. If you’re struggling, it’s because there’s something wrong. You’re not...
What Your Relationship Mistakes Say about You
Do you worry much? One of the things I see a lot in my coaching practice is worry about relationship decisions and relationship mistakes from the past. Many of the women I talk to worry they’ve made the wrong choices. Stayed in the wrong relationship too long. Let go...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!