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2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you.Find your future husband by leading with your most authentic, vulnerable self. Every woman needs a different strategy at different...

What Your Relationship Mistakes Say about You

What Your Relationship Mistakes Say about You

Do you worry much? One of the things I see a lot in my coaching practice is worry about relationship decisions and relationship mistakes from the past. Many of the women I talk to worry they’ve made the wrong choices. Stayed in the wrong relationship too long. Let go...

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do? Didn’t text/call you back.Disappeared on you.Didn’t show up for a date. These days, it’s common for someone to vanish off the face of the earth, whether it’s ghosting (in which he disappears for good) or...

How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

It’s tough when women come into my office suffering from a recently-ended relationship. They want to get over it, they want to move on and meet someone new, but the pain of loss keeps tripping them up. I admire these women greatly. They’ve gone through a terrible...

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix documentary “The Call to Courage.” Even though she’s a shame and vulnerability researcher (which wouldn’t seem to...

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

New couples make out… Old couples give each other a peck on the cheek. The longer you’re together, the more habitual your kissing becomes. You don’t need to make out for hours when you’ve been sleeping in the same bed for years. You take each other’s physical presence...

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

You’re on a first date, and you really want to make it to a second date. Should you: (a) Talk about him, or (b) talk about yourself?(a) Ask lots of questions, or (b) not ask questions?(a) Play it cool, or (b) get excited? I’ll give you a clue. The answer is either all...

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always, and she was casually dressed in jeans and a t-shirt, but she looked like she’d stepped straight off the plane...

Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success

Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success

You’re picking an online dating profile picture. Which picture do you choose? The one of you dressed up and smiling at the camera.The one of you pouting at the camera in a cleavage-baring top.The one of you biting into an enormous grilled cheese sandwich. Hold that...

How Dating Has Changed in the 21st Century

How Dating Has Changed in the 21st Century

Every year for the past eight years, online dating giant Match.com has surveyed singles across America. They wanted to know what makes a great first date, whether hookups ever lead to a committed relationship, and whether old-fashioned gender expectations still hold...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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