But you don’t have.
Like the perfect relationship. Or the perfect career. Or the perfect home.
When clients come to me for help with getting what they want, I watch the pattern of their thoughts. Because everyone has problems. But it’s our thinking that determines our ability to rise above them.
What I tell my clients is that changing the way you think about your problems will help you achieve your dreams faster than fixing your problems.
It all comes down to mindset.
Change your mindset, and your entire life shifts automatically. No hard work required.
So, what’s the most effective way to think about what’s standing between you and your goals?
Let me show you the two most common thinking traps. Then I’ll share the secret to an effortless mindset for relationship success.
“Something is wrong with the world.”
Why don’t you have what you want?
You know why. The world is stupid. It’s not set up to make anything easy. Dating is a waste of time, men are jerks, and culture is centered around superficial standards of beauty that no woman could possibly measure up to.
There are obstacles everywhere you look. Statistically, the chances of you finding lasting love are so slim you might as well not bother. Everyone else has it so much easier. You’ve had to fight hard for every single thing you’ve achieved.
When you’re living within this mindset, life is such a struggle. It’s exhausting. Fix one problem, and twenty more pop up.
Luckily, there’s a better way.