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Dressing to Attract Men

Dressing to Attract Men

Is it better to be conventionally attractive… Or is it better to look interesting? I’ll tell you what I’ve noticed about the effect this has for women, but...

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Know That You’re His One-and-Only

Know That You’re His One-and-Only

A long time ago, I was standing in one of those lines. You know the ones. Glaciers move faster. Might as well pitch a tent and break out the freeze-dried food, because you’re in it for the long haul. I’d been staring at the head of the person in front of me for so...

How to Soothe Rejection with Self-Compassion

How to Soothe Rejection with Self-Compassion

If I could make a guess about you, I’d bet that you’re harder on yourself than anyone else. Am I right? You’re hard on yourself because being a good person matters to you. You want to be good at what you do. You want to be good to the people you love. You don’t want...

What He Sees in You

What He Sees in You

How long does it take for a man to know if he’s attracted to you? He knows from the moment he sets eyes on you. In hard numbers, that’s 100 milliseconds. Researchers at Princeton found that we’re most accurate when it comes to making snap judgements about two traits:...

Play Your Way to His Heart

Play Your Way to His Heart

Do you like games? Board games? Frisbee? Video games? Pool? Then invite your guy to play. Or, if you don’t have a guy, invite someone you like to play with you. You may just find that some silly fun unleashes incredible chemistry. If you’re tired of the typical first...

Help Him Fall for the Authentic You

Help Him Fall for the Authentic You

Being authentic isn’t a dating strategy; it’s the most comfortable, healthy way to live your life. When you meet a guy for the first time, do you know exactly how you want to come across? Flirty, but not over the top. Fun, but no party girl. Interesting, but...

The Sure-Fire Way to Make Him Hot for You

The Sure-Fire Way to Make Him Hot for You

What if I told you there was one sure-fire scientifically-proven way to spice things up in your relationship? It’s used by relationship counselors in their own marriages.[1] It’s so powerful that it may even give a fertility boost to couples struggling to conceive....

How to Enjoy Dating and Reduce Stress

How to Enjoy Dating and Reduce Stress

Rank the following in order of importance to you in dating: Male attentionGetting a ringLanding the guy that got awayConnecting with someone Research shows that only ONE of those options is guaranteed to make you happier. Which one is it? I’ll tell you in a minute,...

Signs He Wants You Bad (What is he waiting for?)

Signs He Wants You Bad (What is he waiting for?)

When you’re really interested in a guy, how do you show it? Do you: Tell him straight off the bat?Flirt?Invade his personal space?Drop a hint to his friends? Each option has advantages and drawbacks. Telling him straight off the bat means you don’t have to wait around...

What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?

What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?

“She doesn’t respect me, so why should I have to respect her?” Dillon leaned forward, certain I’d agree with him. But Jayla cut in with a shrug of her shoulders, “I’d respect him if he started acting like a man instead of a teenage boy.” Dillon looked to me, “See what...

3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit

3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit

Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...

Feel like Giving Up on Love?

Feel like Giving Up on Love?

“Don’t do it!” they’ll tell you. “You’ll find someone. You just haven’t met the right one yet.” It’s nice that they’re so concerned about you. But you’re not sure if their concern is warranted. After all, giving up on love feels like such a relief. No more worrying...

The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men

The Lesson Oprah Learned about Men

Even Oprah used to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call. She’d stay off the phone in case he tried and got a busy signal. She wouldn’t go out to dump the trash or start a bath in case she missed hearing it ring. This was decades ago, when she wasn’t the...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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