Destructive Abundance

abundance mindsetHaving an abundance mindset is a wonderful thing. It literally makes life more fun. It supports actions and choices that move you forward in life.

But it has an evil twin.

“Destructive abundance” is what happens when you start to achieve a lot of success and you begin to hoard that success, living in fear of losing it.

When you’re at the bottom of the barrel, you have nothing to lose. Under those circumstances it’s easier to adopt an abundance mindset.

But as you begin to acquire success in your relationships, finances, career, or anything else, you have something of value…and you don’t want to lose it.

Your mind begins to shift very slowly, often without you even noticing. Your mind shifts away from an abundance mindset and toward destructive abundance…the fear of losing what you’ve gained.

Let me tell you how this impacts relationships.

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