How to Get a Guy to Like You FAST

How to Get a Guy to Like You FASTHow do you make a lasting impression when you only get 60 seconds?

That’s all the time it takes for people to start judging you. It’s an insanely short window.

Take Jessica as an example. She’s single and interested in meeting someone new. So she goes out, mingles, and tries to stay socially plugged in.

Recently, she was at a happy hour with some friends. They got into a conversation with some guys at the next table. They talked for a bit, and then the men moved on.

When you’re single, opportunities to meet someone can pop up and vanish just that quickly. You get a few minutes of conversation at most. That’s it.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in a typical social environment, like a bar, or somewhere else, like the gym, the breakroom at work, or even the grocery store. If you meet a guy you’d like to get to know better, you get one shot at a first impression.

How do you make it count?

There are several psychological hacks[i] you can use to make the most of those moments. These aren’t tricks or traps. I would never suggest that you deceive a guy you’re interested in.

Instead, these are ways to fast-track showing him the kind of person you are. And at the same time, you’ll get to find out what kind of person he is.

If you want to make the most of an opportunity for romance, the following three hacks will help nail that first impression.

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Unlock His Desire to Be with You. Try This One Simple Idea Tonight

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You probably have a guy in mind right now. He’s the reason you signed up to receive my emails, right?

Well that makes me happy. Because I have a lot of valuable ideas to share with you.

Starting with this one…

I’m going to show you an easy way to unlock your natural charisma every time you interact with your guy. So let’s get to it.

It all comes down to a simple question: Do you believe you can enhance his life?

I mean, are you convinced that the guy you’re interested in would experience more happiness in life if he settled into a relationship with you?

And if you’re already dating him, are you convinced he’s lucky to have you?

You should be. In fact, that conviction is vitally important to the health of your relationship. Here’s why.

Okay, imagine you’re sitting at the departure gate in an airport. Your gaze wanders across the rows of people seated around you. And there’s this attractive guy who catches your eye.

First impressions tell a lot. And you can tell this is a guy you would love to find yourself sitting next to on the plane.

But why leave it to chance? Why not approach him now? Strike up a conversation. That would work fine, right?

Right. Except one thing. It feels weird to walk up to a complete stranger with the obvious intent of trying to strike up a conversation.

You fear he would see right through you. See that you like him. See that you’re nervous. See that you want something from him: his attention.

And that makes you uncomfortable in a sweaty-palms sort of way. Which, I can tell you, as a dating and relationship coach…it’s just not the vibe you want. You can do better. And I’m going to show you how.

To see how this works, let’s imagine the same basic situation. Only this time, you have something to offer. Something to give him.

You see, he stands up and glances toward the nearest convenience store, probably planning to grab a magazine for the long flight. He grabs his luggage, but accidentally leaves his cell phone on the arm rest.

You snatch the phone and skip after him.

Are you nervous to approach him this time? Of course not! Poor guy. You’ve got something he desperately needs while traveling. You have every reason to approach him. It’s him who will be in your debt.

And that is the magical mindset. That’s the mindset that automatically unlocks the relaxed, confident, and charismatic version of you. And that’s exactly why I want you to start using that mindset on a regular basis. Use it anytime you are about to interact with a love interest.

You use it by remembering one thing. You have a lot to offer. If he let’s you into his life, you’ll enhance it.

The basic belief that you can enrich his life through a close, intimate relationship is crucial. Because it changes how you come across to him.

I want you to remember that you have something pretty awesome to offer. Yourself.

But I understand this is one of those “easier said than done” ideas. So here’s an easy technique for keeping your confidence up.

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Are There Any Tricks To Making A Man Fall In Love With You?

attracting menThe short answer is yes.

For example, in my training materials I describe a method for making your pupils grow larger while making eye contact with a man.

Executed correctly, this technique can cause him to feel drawn towards you in a romantic way (without knowing why).

(Our pupils enlarge whenever we are looking at something we like or want. At a subconscious level we notice when this happens to someone we are interacting with…which stirs positive feelings of attraction.)

You can also pull hard on a man’s emotions by connecting with him through the power of story.

That method takes some practice, but it basically means tapping into the fact that the human brain is wired for story.

We pay attention when someone tells a story. We get emotionally involved when someone shares their story. I’m talking about short snippets of story you weave into your natural conversation.

But in today’s coaching email we are discussing something right under your nose that you may have missed.

Think about what you already know about love. Using your existing knowledge base, try answering the following question.

Jack and Jill work in the same office setting. If Jill wants to make Jack fall in love with her, should she increase or decrease the following factors?

  • Going out of her way to create contact and basically “show up” more frequently
  • Using nonverbal flirtation to indicate openness to an advance from Jack
  • Length of sustained eye contact when speaking with Jack
  • Effort to maximize physical attractiveness (exercise, cosmetics, and style)
  • Non-work related conversation with Jack
  • Expressions of anger when Jack is around
  • Expressions of sarcasm or bitterness about the job or anything else
  • Discussion of how awful her last romantic relationship was because of the “jerk” she was dating
  • Demonstrations of possessiveness or jealousy when Jack gives attention to other women in the office

These factors are all fairly obvious, yet many people ignore them, thinking they have to wait for magic potion number nine before they’ll have any chance with a particular guy.

Have you ever heard that expression, “Good things come to those who wait?” Well it doesn’t apply here!

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