You probably have a guy in mind right now. He’s the reason you signed up to receive my emails, right?
Well that makes me happy. Because I have a lot of valuable ideas to share with you.
Starting with this one…
I’m going to show you an easy way to unlock your natural charisma every time you interact with your guy. So let’s get to it.
It all comes down to a simple question: Do you believe you can enhance his life?
I mean, are you convinced that the guy you’re interested in would experience more happiness in life if he settled into a relationship with you?
And if you’re already dating him, are you convinced he’s lucky to have you?
You should be. In fact, that conviction is vitally important to the health of your relationship. Here’s why.
Okay, imagine you’re sitting at the departure gate in an airport. Your gaze wanders across the rows of people seated around you. And there’s this attractive guy who catches your eye.
First impressions tell a lot. And you can tell this is a guy you would love to find yourself sitting next to on the plane.
But why leave it to chance? Why not approach him now? Strike up a conversation. That would work fine, right?
Right. Except one thing. It feels weird to walk up to a complete stranger with the obvious intent of trying to strike up a conversation.
You fear he would see right through you. See that you like him. See that you’re nervous. See that you want something from him: his attention.
And that makes you uncomfortable in a sweaty-palms sort of way. Which, I can tell you, as a dating and relationship coach…it’s just not the vibe you want. You can do better. And I’m going to show you how.
To see how this works, let’s imagine the same basic situation. Only this time, you have something to offer. Something to give him.
You see, he stands up and glances toward the nearest convenience store, probably planning to grab a magazine for the long flight. He grabs his luggage, but accidentally leaves his cell phone on the arm rest.
You snatch the phone and skip after him.
Are you nervous to approach him this time? Of course not! Poor guy. You’ve got something he desperately needs while traveling. You have every reason to approach him. It’s him who will be in your debt.
And that is the magical mindset. That’s the mindset that automatically unlocks the relaxed, confident, and charismatic version of you. And that’s exactly why I want you to start using that mindset on a regular basis. Use it anytime you are about to interact with a love interest.
You use it by remembering one thing. You have a lot to offer. If he let’s you into his life, you’ll enhance it.
The basic belief that you can enrich his life through a close, intimate relationship is crucial. Because it changes how you come across to him.
I want you to remember that you have something pretty awesome to offer. Yourself.
But I understand this is one of those “easier said than done” ideas. So here’s an easy technique for keeping your confidence up.