Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”

“I would like to be in a relationship, but there’s one thing holding me back,” Stacey said. “What’s that?” “Men. I don’t trust them. They’re users. They’ve destroyed the lives of so many good women I know. Like, I’m glad my mother met my father, or I wouldn’t be...

How to Find a Man Who Treasures You

Amanda came to me with an interesting concern. She was reading romance novels. Nonstop. And every time she did, she felt like crying. Because her relationship was so far from the love depicted in those pages. “I wonder if it’s me,” she said. “If I was more amazing,...

The Art of Avoiding Creeps & Encouraging Good Guys

Mia had a unique problem. “The only guys who talk to me are the creepy ones,” she told me. “I try to end it pretty quick, but it’s getting frustrating. What am I, a creep magnet?” “What’s a creep, exactly?” I asked her. She gave me a look. “You know. A weirdo. Someone...

Why Guys Are Getting Sloppy

“I’ve seen men put more effort into finding a movie to watch on Netflix Instant than composing a coherent message to ask a woman out,” said Anna Goldfarb, 34, an author and blogger in Moorestown, N.J. A typical, annoying query is the last-minute: “Is anything fun...