The Curious Secret to Happily-Ever-After

That phrase happily-ever-after has a lot of explaining to do. It sets us up to believe that once we meet the perfect person, our lives will become instantly happier… And we’ll stay happy forever. But that doesn’t match our experience. Yes, meeting an amazing person...

3 Relationship Habits that Will Get You More Happiness

Imagine you’ve gone to L.A. on business. Nothing exciting. Just a conference in one of those soulless hotels near the airport. You sneak a moment away and find a coffee shop. You just want to sit for a moment, relax, and take in that SoCal vibe. As you’re sitting...

Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss

Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...

The Secret to Lasting Happiness

I had the good fortune of meeting a lovely elderly woman who was celebrating her 50th wedding anniversary. Of course I had to ask: “What’s the secret to staying happily married as long as you two?” “Secret?” She laughed. “There’s no secret. A happy marriage is made up...