Beat Negativity for a Positively Amazing Romance

You know what really sucks about having a bad day? Everything. I have a friend—let’s call her Sarah—who was having a rotten day recently. She slept late, her boss was on her butt the second she walked through the door, clients were upset, and halfway through the...

The Most Important Thing for Real Romance

Has a breakup ever caught you totally off guard? Sometimes we see them coming, and sometimes we just don’t. One woman I spoke to recently said, “I was hoping things would work out, but the writing was on the wall. When it ended, I don’t think either of us was...

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

How much do you trust your intuition? In our culture, we talk a lot about women’s intuition. A number of my clients have even told me that influential women in their lives encouraged them to always trust their intuition. Here’s the picture we tend to...

Don’t Miss this “Accidental” Kind of Romance

If this has ever happened to you, you know how frustrating it is. You’re single. You’re not happy about it. You lament to a friend, someone who is NOT single, and she smiles benevolently. Then she says the one thing all single people hate to hear:...