Falling in Love? Don’t Screw It Up

“Oh, he’s amaaaazing,” Sasha said. “I wish you could meet him. I think he might be the one!!” I smiled. Sasha leaned in as if she was going to tell me a secret, “But I am so worried I’m going to screw this up!” It’s always a delight to hear someone gush about their...

I Messed Up and Ruined Everything

Kirsten didn’t want to tell me what she’d done at first. All I knew was that she’d “wrecked” her relationship. She sat in the chair in my office, nervous and trembling, unable to look at me. She wanted me to help her “fix it,” without explaining what we’d be fixing....

What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes

Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...

What Your Relationship Mistakes Say about You

Do you worry much? One of the things I see a lot in my coaching practice is worry about relationship decisions and relationship mistakes from the past. Many of the women I talk to worry they’ve made the wrong choices. Stayed in the wrong relationship too long. Let go...

Most People Make At Least One of These 6 Relationship Mistakes

Have you ever noticed that your romantic challenges seem to be the same, even when you’re with different guys? Would you like to know why? You’ve probably seen the movie How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. In it, Kate Hudson’s character accepts a weird bet. She wagers she...