From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...

How to Use Mind Control to Get the Relationship You Want

Have you ever seen a “mentalist” perform? Mentalists are stage magicians who specialize in “mind control” tricks. Here’s an example. The mentalist asks you to think of a number. While you’re thinking, he writes a number down on a clipboard right in front of you, but...

How to Use Smoke and Mirrors to Make Your Relationship Great

Which of the following two scenarios do you think would get better results? There’s a local coffee shop. The shop owner wants to start giving customers rewards cards. After a customer buys so many coffees, they get one free. But he has two versions of the card. One...

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

It happens in every relationship. You say something, and there’s an awkward silence. Tension descends. Something’s wrong. You don’t know what. He looks away. His mouth is tight. Fear hits you in the gut. You’re losing him! You can’t let that happen. What you do next...

How to Achieve Dating Bliss

There’s a trick to being happy in dating. Actually, this trick works for any relationship at any stage. You can use it with your family, friends, coworkers, boss, and yes, your partner. If you learn how to do this one thing, I can promise you every relationship in...