Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her life never quite fit that description. Every time I spoke to her, she’d be gushing about someone new. This guy...

Most People Make At Least One of These 6 Relationship Mistakes

Have you ever noticed that your romantic challenges seem to be the same, even when you’re with different guys? Would you like to know why? You’ve probably seen the movie How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. In it, Kate Hudson’s character accepts a weird bet. She wagers she...

What Romance Novels Can Teach You about Real Relationships

So I’m no expert on romance novels marketed to women. (You probably could have guessed that, right?) But I have read a few because it’s related to work I do. For me, the most fascinating part has nothing to do with the budding romance that inevitably swings into full...

Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss

Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...

How to Have All the Romance and None of the Regret

Do you have any relationship regrets? Things you said or did you wish you could take back? Things you didn’t do that you wish you had? You might think, “Well sure, James. Most of us do.” And you’d be right…as long as you take into account a surprising statistic....