7 Things You Can Do to Feel Emotionally Stronger

If you don’t meet your own emotional needs early on in a relationship, you’ll feel it later. Plus, it has the potential to really mess with your connection with your guy. To illustrate what I’m talking about, think about the last time you were craving something. I’m...

3 Ways to Let Him Know You Need Him Without Appearing Needy

Neediness has gotten a bad rap. You shouldn’t need a man. You should be independent and self-sufficient. You should seek a partner to complement you, not complete you. Those “shoulds” come from everywhere. Culture. Advice columns. Friends. It’s not surprising that...

You Really ARE Better Than Average

Can you ever really know how other people see you? It would be great if you could. Then you could see exactly what he sees when he looks at you. You could see why he loves you, or why he turned away. You could see whether that mole on your cheek is sexy or...

The Value in Harboring a Secret Obsession

You’re driving a bit over the speed limit. Nothing out of the ordinary. Nothing you’d ever think about. But this time a cop pulls you over. He gives you a speeding ticket. It’s surprising. Frustrating. Scary. And for the whole next week, you can’t stop thinking about...