How to become a lightning rod for sexual attraction by using the three factors marriage therapists try to avoid.

Sexual AttractionIt’s the last thing marriage counselors have on their mind, but it’s a dangerous situation.  A couple on the verge of divorce comes to the office to seek counseling.  The counselor tries to help.  Unfortunately, the methods counselors use to help often lead to feelings of attraction toward the counselor.  It’s like the counseling room is a Petri dish for sexual attraction.

You may be wondering what those factors are?  Wouldn’t you like to sneak into a graduate school classroom and listen in as the professor lists the factors that can inadvertently cause one member of the couple to feel attracted to the therapist?  Well I’ve got good news for you.  I found someone who actually did sit through that lecture and he spilled the beans.

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