That’s why you’ll stay on the phone for HOURS, even if you’re not really a long-phone-call kind of person. The beginning is just so charged.
And then things slow down. Which is good, even though it’s not nearly as exciting.
But what if you could reclaim that initial excitement? What if you could return to that level of passion, even after you’ve been with someone for a while?
Think about the last time you bought a new car. For a while, every time you slid into the driver’s seat you were elated. Everything was so fresh and different. And who doesn’t love that new car smell?!
But the new car smell faded.
You got used to the controls, the fresh layout, and even the bells and whistles you freaked out over on the test drive. You probably didn’t even realize it was happening, but your new car became just “the car.”
Anything we encounter every day can become dull, simply because we’re used to it. Even romance.
But there’s a way to reboot the excitement, super-charging your relationship all over again. And the solution is probably the opposite of what you’d expect.