You only get twenty-four hours per day. If you could freeze time while you roamed the world, you might have better luck finding the right man before the hands of time arrested your efforts. The simple truth is, we must accomplish every aspect of living within the confines of a mere twenty-four hours per day. Those twenty-four hours go by quick!
You must arrange your life so that you can live fully within the confines of the twenty-four hours you have to work with each day. Unlike money, your time budget will never change. You can get more money, but you will never get more than twenty-four hours a day.
This realization is not comfortable or pleasant. It is, however, a necessary realization if you are going to learn to live comfortably and successfully, rather than constantly straining to achieve more than is possible with the limited time you have.
Being in a relationship, or pursuing a new relationship, requires a set of necessary sacrifices. Here are the sacrifices I recommend you make so you can be more successful with the time you have.
Give up on watching the horizon for a better time to take the plunge and invest time in relationships. For whatever reason, our plate is always full of activities. If you remove one activity, the time you have gets eaten up by something else. Use your intuition to decide which pursuits to cut out of your life. Then spend time pursuing a relationship, even if things are a bit messy because of other time demands.
Accept that you will not be able to date every eligible man before deciding which one is the best. This requires that you listen to your intuition. Your intuition will tell you when it’s time to cut a relationship short, or when it’s right to give your heart permission to delight in the man you have found.
Give up on the idea of conserving your energy for work. You get sixteen hours per day of wakefulness, and only eight of those need to be work hours. Yet most people spend the eight non-working hours as if they were some sort of preamble and conclusion to “the day,” by which they mean the work day.
During the non-working hours people feel entitled to relax and do nothing. You might insist the full energy given to your sixteen waking hours would lessen the value of the eight business hours. I disagree. Energy begets energy. We all need downtime and rest, but what constitutes resting is mainly a matter of attitude. For one person it’s a mountain bike ride through a forest with friends, while for another person, it’s watching TV in solitude. Even if you did one of those activities for two hours every work day, that still leaves you six hours that could be used productively in pursuit of your primary life goals. Adopt the sixteen-hour-day mentality and see whether spending more energy leaves you feeling happier or drained.
Give up on feeling ready. People often wait for a solid sense of direction before taking action with the time they have available. Not sure how to move your relationship forward? Not sure how to meet more eligible men? Dive in and you will find your intuition comes to your rescue.
How do you respond when someone stands at the edge of a swimming pool and asks how to overcome the hesitation to leap into the cool water? You tell them there is no secret, and they must simply jump. There is no preparation that will make them feel ready for the shock of the cold water on their skin. Your intuition will feed you many ideas once you take the leap, but you won’t feel ready before you take the leap.
With all this talk of intuition, it would be understandable if you thought I relied too much on intuition as an answer for every problem. There’s a reason for that. Intuition has become a partner I rely on heavily as a dating coach.
I train my clients to tap into a far more powerful source of intuition than they ever imagined they possessed. Only then do I send them out to accomplish the relationship success for which they sought my assistance. Intuition is powerful for those who apply just a tiny bit of time to develop its potential more fully.
In the world of dating, intuition can make all the difference. It’s the difference between confusion about what a man is thinking, and clear insights about what is about to unfold. It’s the difference between confidence in romantic decision-making versus hand-wringing and over-reliance on friends who only tell you what they think you want to hear.
It’s because of the power of intuition that I devoted hours of my life to create training materials for any woman who chooses to unleash the power of intuition in her romantic world. With the limited time we have, every decision matters. Click this link to unleash your own intuition now.